WHAT ATHENIAN MEN SAID ABOUT WOMEN
Since few
women in the Ancient World knew how to read or write, most of our information
about their life comes to us filtered through the eyes of men. This is
particularly problematic in the case of
1)
Aristotle said that
man is by nature superior to the female and so the man should rule and the
woman should be ruled.[1]
2)
Demosthenes wrote
“We keep hetaerae for the sake of pleasure, females slaves for our daily
care and wives to give us legitimate children and to be the guardians of our
households.”[2]
3)
“A man who
teaches a woman to write should know that he is providing poison to an
asp.”[3]
4)
Euripides has women
characters make disparaging remarks about their sex:
a)
I am only a woman, a
thing which the world hates.[4]
b)
No cure has been found
for a woman’s venom, worse than that of reptiles. We are a curse to
man.[5]
c)
Men of sense should
never let gossiping women visit their wives, for they work mischief.[6]
5)
Hipponax, whose
writing is quite abusive anyway, had this to say about women: “There are
two days on which a woman is most pleasing---when someone marries her and when
he carries out her dead body.”[7] This aphorism probably should be
ignored, coming as it does from a Sixth Century BCE Ephesian whose malicious
temperament left him with few friends in the land of his birth and very little
good to say about anyone, but the remark is quoted too often today to be left
out.
6)
Hyperides said,
“A woman who travels outside her house should be old enough that people
ask whose mother she is, not whose wife she is.”[8]
7)
In his Funeral Speech
Pericles said, “A woman’s reputation is highest when men say little
about her, whether it be good or evil.”[9]
Creation
stories tell us a great deal about a society’s view of itself and the
world around. In the Judao-Christian version Adam (man) was the first human and
God fashioned Eve (woman) to be a companion. After the Serpent successfully
urged her to eat the forbidden fruit of the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil
she tempted her husband to do the same, and when God caught them both are
driven out of the Garden of Eden and into a world of sorrow and hard work. Note
that men and women sprang from the same source-material, and while her creation
was an afterthought on God’s part it was done as a favor to man, and that
while woman was the tempter, man was a willing participant in the crime that
led to their expulsion from
The epic poem, The Odyssey, features a number of prominent women, only one of whom was mortal. The others were nymphs, immortal beings with much power but a status lower than that of goddess. They varied in personality and attractiveness but they had the potential to do enormous damage to any man they met. The nymph Charybdis had been turned into a whirlpool that sucked in water and blew it back up, destroying any ship that tried to pass by. The nymph Scylla with six heads and eighteen rows of teeth ate six of Odysseus’ sailors. Sirens tempted men with their seductive song and then lured them to their death on the beach. When Circe drugged men and turned them into pigs, Hermes supplied Odysseus with the antidote and he searched the island to find his men. Later the nymph Calypso kept Odysseus a prisoner on her island for seven years while she tried to persuade him to marry her, letting him go only after the gods finally convinced her he would never be a willing companion. Sue Blundell said these women have the power to “engulf and obliterate men if they become too closely involved with them: that this engulfment is of a sexual nature is an impression evoked by the symbols of the yawning chasm and the man-eating monster.”[11]
The Hippocratic writers believed that men and women were different in that the latter had flesh that is more porous and softer and that it drew moisture faster and in greater quantities from the belly than did men. [12] Menstruation was nature’s way of getting rid of this excess. [13] Only Aristotle saw that they were essentially the same animal: the woman, he said, was simply an inferior sort of man.
It
seems clear, then, that Athenians saw women as beguiling creatures capable of
causing considerable harm to themselves and others, and weaker in mind and body
than men. Many believed that young girls were somewhat wild and difficult to
control and that virgins were subject to hallucinations that could encourage
them to be self-destructive. The solution was an early marriage, for only after
a woman had delivered her first baby could she be a fully-operational female.
[1]
Aristotle, Politics
[2]
Demosthenes, Apollodorus Against Neaera,
III, 122
[3] Fourth
Century CE school children made numerous copies of this statement which they
attributed to the Athenian 4th Century BCE Menander
[4] Phaedra,
speaking in Euripides, Hippolytus
[5]
Andromache, speaking in Euripides, Andromache
[6] Ibid
[7] Hipponax
[8]
Hyperides, Fr. 204
[9]
Thucydides, 2.45.2
[10] Hesiod, Works and Days, 42-105
[11]
Blundell, Sue, (1999) Women in Ancient
[12]
Hippocrates, Diseases of Women, I.1
[13] Hippocrates,
Regimen, I.34